Women into women: Separating the flirting from the friendly
At BARE we want you to have fulfilling, flirty encounters, not ones that leave you confused and disappointed. Don't worry, we've got the tips. Let's up your flirting game and help you decode those puzzling moments with women - were they flirting with you or just being friendly?
It's a tale as old as time… Girl meets girl, Girl A compliments Girl B's outfit, who responds, 'Oh my gosh, thank you! You're so pretty…' and they both spend the evening wondering if the other realised they were trying to flirt. Sound familiar? We see you, sapphics in crisis, and we're here to help.
Our first words of flirting advice
The first piece of advice happens to be the solution to most dating issues, so take notes. It's simply to communicate! Yes, it seems scary, but saying how you feel is the quickest way out of the dreaded cycle of friendly compliments. At the appropriate moment there's nothing wrong with saying, 'I really like you, I'd love to go on a date with you.' It's that easy. Even if they don't feel the same, it's always flattering to hear that someone's into you so there'll be no hard feelings. If you find yourself in ambiguously motivated hang-out territory, adding on a quick 'it's a date!' when making plans works wonders. Remember, confidence is sexy.
It's all in the compliments
If you don't want to be so direct, then all is not lost. A more subtle way of making your feelings clear is to adjust the way you give compliments. Firstly, the tone of your voice makes a world of difference. When you're complimenting friends you might notice the pitch of your voice going up. Try maintaining your regular pitch and tone, it'll sound much more flirtatious.
In terms of what you say, compliment them, not what they're wearing. This could be like saying they look good in their outfit, rather than saying you like their outfit. Subtle changes in wording like that create a clear divide between the way you talk to friends and people you're interested in romantically or sexually.
How will I know if she's flirting with me?
Now, to tell if someone's flirting with you, you can reverse engineer the previous offerings. For example, noticing their tone of voice when they've complimented you. But, you can also pay attention to other things. Compare your interactions and conversations with the way you behave around your friends. Would you have been so touchy-feely with someone you weren't trying to express interest in? Of course, everyone is different, but this is an easy way to judge the intentions behind someone's actions.
Let's not forget about body language; people subconsciously and instinctively copy the posture and gestures of someone they feel a connection with. This isn't just something to observe, you can also get playful by testing the waters. See if she's flirting with you by shifting your position, touching your face, playing with your hair. In all likelihood, she'll do the same soon after. The sooner she mirrors you, the better the chance that she's interested. If you're feeling particularly mischievous, see how far you can push it with some more obscure contortions and quirky gestures… But don't let this make you feel self-conscious of your own body language. If that's the case we've got the tips you need for a more confident posture.
Alternatively, you can never go wrong consulting friends. Sometimes it's necessary to get an outsider's perspective. They won't be clouded by your pesky self-doubt and can look at it from an objective point of view.
If in doubt, trust your instincts! Humans are flirtatious creatures; it's probably safe to, respectfully, assume they're flirting. We're likely to sell ourselves short and assume we're reading too much into the situation. To combat this, if you're picking up on some flirty vibes then believe in yourself. As long as you don't take that as an excuse to behave inappropriately, there's no harm in suspecting a crush here or there. If it turns out that you're wrong, then once again, it's always nice to hear that someone has feelings for you - they won't mind.
Flirting in dating apps
A way to escape any and all ambiguity in these interactions is to go down the dating app route. That way, you can be certain that the people you match with are interested in you. To take it a step further, the BARE Dating app has a feature that allows you to say what you're looking for in your matches. The options include Something More Serious, Something Less Serious, and Open to Options - encouraging openness and communication from the get go. For those of us who struggle finding or initiating casual hookups, this feature eliminates that preliminary logistical awkwardness and moves you right along to the good bits. Although we can't promise you won't still end up U-Hauling - that's out of our hands.
For all their positives, dating apps can be a nightmare when you can't get a conversation going. Luckily for you we've had a lot of practice and have already put together a whole list of flirting tips for dating apps. These will carry you through your first chats and avoid stagnation.
None of these methods are completely foolproof but that's what makes flirting so fun! If you knew the outcome before you started, there'd be no thrill in it. That being said, getting these tools under your belt will give you a head start among the rest of the clueless crowd.
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